Teenage!! That wild phase where you’re treated like a child but expected to act like an adult. Growing up has never been easy. Be it now, a decade ago, a century ago, or even in the future. Some classic teen thoughts like “They don’t understand… I’m so confused… Do I have to make these choices now?… Why are relationships so hard? Look at my body… Am I old enough or young?” and many more always stick around.
So, who do we turn to when we need to sort ourselves out? Do these questions really disappear as we move from teenage years to adulthood? Well, it seems being a teen sparks a journey we’re all on, and it never really stops.
So, how do you handle this wild ride called growing up? Some might say, “Ah! Big deal, we all grew up!!” True, but wouldn’t it be more exciting to try a road less traveled?
Making the Unknown Totally Relatable:
Embrace Teen Changes: The teenage years bring tons of changes—emotional, behavioral, and social. A lot of it happens without us even realizing. Give yourself time to explore and unfold gradually. Sharing the journey with others can be magical.
Mutual Understanding: Every teenager is trying to figure out life, just like parents. Both sides are new to these changes. Patience and communication are key.
Handle Conflicts Like a Pro: Conflicts are natural. New perspectives, the clash between experience and the desire to explore, and new challenges can be tough to accept. Keeping an open mind can unlock hidden potential.
Build Trust: Trust is a big deal. It doesn’t come easily, but trusting your child and vice versa can strike a balance between privacy and freedom. That’s a big one, right? Having a confiding buddy like a slightly older aunt or uncle—known devil is better than the unknown!
Love, Love, Love!: Love has always been there and will always be there. No matter how big the mistake or how strict the parent, there’s always a bigger picture we often miss.
So here’s to the most misunderstood population: Ride on… get ready for a zombie apocalypse… but also get ready for that test tomorrow. With privacy and freedom comes responsibility. So even if you’re not old enough… you’re not young enough either!
